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Yonatan Shmuel Zipursky

Saturday, May 8th, 2010

Introducing Yonatan Shmuel Zipursky.

He was born on April 8, 2010. He weighed 7 lbs 4 oz and measured 20.5″.

His Names

As with Shula and Lior, Yoni has only one set of names (unlike many who give their kids both English and Hebrew names, we choose to give only Hebrew names).

We picked Yonatan primarily because we like the sound of it. In Hebrew, it means “God has given”. Thank you, Ronen, for suggesting it.

He does share his first name with Yonatan Netanyahu, the commander of the IDF’s raid on Entebbe. His family published a book of his letters that I read years ago. Thinking back on Netanyahu’s life, I hope that our Yonatan develops  some of the same qualities of leadership, sensitivity, and intelligence that defined Yonatan Netanyahu.

Yoni’s middle name, Shmuel, is in honor of my Uncle Sid. Uncle Sid, or “Unc” as we called him, was larger than life and a huge influence on me growing up. He was a husband, father, world traveller, art collector and aficionado, photographer, stamp collector, historian, writer, repair man, and so much more. Uncle Sid was the kind of guy that could talk to anyone and befriend them instantly. I pray Yoni develops Uncle Sid’s breadth of interests and his zest for life.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yonatan_Netanyahu

Moving Countries

Sunday, June 15th, 2008

We’ve been in Boston for about 6 weeks now. Executive summary: Boston is nice. Moving sucks.

Prior to the move we heard that Bostonians were a little cold or aloof and really bad drivers. So far, the former is false and the latter is true, but they are no worse than Vancouver drivers (and definitely better than Richmond drivers!). One local that we met said Bostonians are obligated to tell outsiders that they are cold and aloof even though it’s not true. I hope they don’t come get me for revealing the truth.

We haven’t had a lot of time to explore Boston proper yet. We spent our first month out in Framingham in a hotel, so didn’t get into the city at all. A couple of weeks ago, we went to the Boston Common which was quite nice. The architecture here is fabulous — and now that I’ve finally unpacked my camera, I hope to start photographing it.

The move has been a series of little pains the entire way – and it’s still going.  The MathWorks provided a really good relocation benefit, but many things outside of their control were imperfect.

We were “professionally” packed and moved from Vancouver by Great Canadian Van Lines.  There were 2 packers – one knew how to pack but not how to keep his trap shut and the other couldn’t do either – he was constantly on his cell phone and, for example, had tossed an unwrapped silver cup carelessly into a box (I only found it because I had to find some things they shouldn’t have packed).  We were not impressed at the time, nor when we had to unpack some of these carelessly packed boxes.

On the other hand, Arpin Van Lines (who sub-contracted the Canadian side) were pretty good overall except for passing on my complaints to Great Canadian before the guys had loaded the truck…  We’ll see how well they respond to my claim for 3 missing boxes, though.  The other headache is our car arrived with a brand new noise.  It’s also to be seen whether the shipper will deal with this.

We nearly didn’t make it into the country because we didn’t realize our daughters needed US passports when entering by air. We thought their Canadian passports were adequate ID, but we got a lecture about how wrong we were about that.  Again, this is something the immigration lawyer should have picked up on. Luckily we just ended up with a stern warning.

Besides the physical move, we’re dealing with starting with essentially no credit here.  AT&T wanted a $500 deposit per phone if we wanted a contract, so we’re on an expensive pay-as-you-go plan until we build up some history.  We’ve applied for some store credit cards and been denied.  It’s great fun.  However, we’re about to get a mortgage, so that should help on the credit problem.

We also had some fun navigating the health care system almost immediately.  First Kim got conjunctivitis and then Lior came down with a fever.  I was so used to walk-in clinics in Vancouver that it was a shock not to have them here.  You actually have to 1) be a member of a doctor’s practice and 2) call your doctor to make an appointment.  If you don’t or can’t do either one you need to go to the ER.

We still need to register our car here.  After that, I think we’ll be done with the biggest parts of the move.

Boston!

Tuesday, March 4th, 2008

I recently accepted a job at The MathWorks and we’ll soon be moving to Boston, MA.  (“Soon” being a relative term if you consider the magnitude of this move…)

I’ll be doing more of this usability stuff and I can’t wait for my March 24 start.  I’m joining a 30-strong usability team and a huge usability community in the Boston area. The story about how I got this job deserves a post of its own.  Stay tuned.

The rest of the family is also excited by the move.  Not only is Boston an old city steeped in history, but it also has a much larger Jewish community that we’re looking forward to joining.

Lior Walks!

Wednesday, January 30th, 2008

Lior was inspired by the walking kids at Oakridge Mall’s Scream Pit play area yesterday.  I caught some of Lior’s first steps on my crappy phone camera.

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(Note: She did not cry after the crash at the end.)

Kill Your TV

Wednesday, January 2nd, 2008

We are kicking the TV out of our house. It’s not that it’s done something wrong — instead, it’s simply time to give it to someone who can take better care of it. We’ve been neglecting the poor thing for too long and it deserves better.

Neither my wife nor I watch much TV although we have been briefly addicted to various shows. I have a current addiction to Battlestar Galactica and my wife was recently watching Desperate Housewives. What we find, though, is that once we miss a few shows (easy when kids are in the mix), we don’t miss them. TV is probably one of the easiest addictions to kick – just turn the thing off.

It will be nice to rid the living room of the box. Have you noticed just how the TV or “home entertainment system” dominates the room? If you have enough space for a dedicated entertainment room, perhaps that’s fine for you. We just have one room big enough for guests and a 27″ TV. We’d like to shift the focus back to people.

We are not banning all video entertainment from our home. We just signed up with Zip.ca (Netflix for Canadians) and will watch the movies on our computers. The subscription offsets the cancelled cable charge, so in the end we are entertainment neutral, I guess.

If you got rid of your TV would you miss it? For how long?

Picture Baby Z

Tuesday, December 19th, 2006

Born December 18 at 1:14am after one of the nicest and driest days in recent memory.

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She was a health 8 lbs and 21 inches long at birth (that’s 3.6 kg and 54 cm for the metrically inclined).

We had a home birth for this baby. I can’t tell you how much better this was compared to the hospital birth. Highly recommended if you’re a low-risk pregnancy.

Finally, the new baby experience is significantly different the second time around. I’m finding it harder to fully appreciate this new life when her older sister still requires our attention (and rightfully so). On the plus side, new baby is already getting used to Shula’s noise.

Retail Therapy

Thursday, May 25th, 2006

It’s been a tough week. I don’t think it’s appropriate to go into detail here, but suffice it to say that some tough medical decisions were made and I hope Kim’s grandfather is on a path to recovery. I will have to write more about him later as he’s had quite a distinguished career. He’s a metallurgical engineer and has worked on projects ranging from aircraft design for Douglas to the [Apollo program](http://www-pao.ksc.nasa.gov/kscpao/history/apollo/apollo.htm) to [cold fusion](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cold_fusion).

As a reward to myself, I bought an [Apple MacBook](http://www.apple.com/macbook/). So far, so good. It’s great. The screen is vibrant and the reflective coating is more than tolerable. Since this is just a toy, I went for the white 1.83 GHz model with the base configuration. We are now officially a dual-OS household. :) Once I download [Bootcamp](http://www.apple.com/macosx/bootcamp/), we’ll be a dual-boot household, too!

It feels a little silly to take pleasure in such a material thing, but after thinking hard about the meaning of life it’s a welcome change.

In California

Monday, May 22nd, 2006

I’m in southern California to visit with Kim’s grandfather and try to bring some focus to a very confused situation. My short glimpse into hospital care (and I don’t think this is specific to US health care) is pretty scary. The synopsis: If you are an elderly patient who’s a little confused due to pain medication and infection, pray to God that you have a family member at your bedside to help you through that difficult time.

For those of you with kids, this is when you want to cash in on all your “honor thy father and mother” points and hope your kids are up to the task.

Please Say a Prayer

Tuesday, May 16th, 2006

Kim’s grandfather, Joe (Yosef Eliezar ben Rachel), is in the hospital and things aren’t looking good. Please take a minute to say a prayer or think good thoughts (whatever your way is).

Tired

Wednesday, April 5th, 2006

This fatherhood thing is tiring. I want to write something insightful or funny or otherwise entertaining, but I just don’t have it in me. My day today:

  • 5:00 – Rise and shine
  • 6:00 – After a leisurely breakfast (gotta read that newspaper) cycle to work
  • 6:45 – Showered and working where I spend hundreds of dollars, work on projects, and have a 3 hours of meetings
  • 3:45 – Cycle home
  • 4:30 – Arrive at home, change, and eat dinner with family
  • 5:30 – Spend the next 45 minutes convincing a 2 year old that she really does want to go to the park
  • 6:15 – Go to park
  • 7:30 – Return home and play requested Barney video
  • 7:40 – Change remarkably passive 2 year old into PJs
  • 7:45 – Steal some relaxation and read a bit of Shadow of the Giant as Barney sings and dances
  • 8:15 – Is Barney over so soon? Story time!
  • 8:50 – My shift’s over! Damn… time to go shopping
  • 10:00 – Write a boring blog post

Jealous?

Rubber Ducky

Saturday, March 25th, 2006

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I’m not sure why, but I like this one.

Picture Those Teeth

Monday, March 7th, 2005



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Originally uploaded by JZip.

Two teeth!

Face Drops

Thursday, December 23rd, 2004

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Originally uploaded by JZip.

When I look at this face, I wonder why we waited so long to have her.

Time for an update

Monday, September 20th, 2004

In the world of baby, there has been great progress.

Shula is 5 months old and is now sitting quite well, showing great interest in her own hands, and eating rice cereal and sweet potatoes. She attended her first swimming class today and has a play date with the 11 month old next door neighbour.

She’s growing up so fast!

First Trip

Sunday, June 20th, 2004

Well, first trip since the baby was born.

This is a first I could do without. It was harder than I thought leaving her, even for this short time. I’m going to miss days of development and, at this age, that’s a significant chunk of her short life. Is she going to miss me? Or, remember who I am when I return? I’m not sure babies even recognize individuals at 2 months of age.

Anyway, I’m toast after a red-eye flight and little sleep in the last 48 hours. Time to sleep and leave the analysis of my feelings or the coincidence that today is Father’s day for later. (I know you’re disappointed.)

First Grab!

Friday, June 18th, 2004

Shula grabbed her first toy today! She looked pretty impressed with herself, but her biggest effort seemed to be in figuring out how to let go.